Old Wisdom: Consider Others Better Than Yourself
April 27th, 2008While this is counter-intuitive and seemingly unproductive in some circles, I try desperately to live it. There are even personal benefits to living this selfless mantra. Think of it this way: how does one climb the social latter? By making others feel special, wanted, liked, important. Now I consider that a lucky side-effect, and not the reason to consider others better.
This mind-frame is difficult, and something I must practice whenever I remember. I find it especially difficult with people that are pompous. Imagine looking at the person checking your food out at the store: he/she probably doesn’t have a great education; I am better paid; I am dressed better and maybe better spoken, yet, they are better than me!
Sure they are better than me. How do I get in this mind-set without just lying to myself? Those are all outward appearances, and I really have no idea what they are capable of. John H. Johnson started with nothing, as did many other business greats. I consider the person in question either better than me at what they are currently doing, and therefore fulling their duty, or, consider them an dormant seedpod, who will hopefully find their inspiration and direction and become great.
Now look how I can treat this person. With the same respect I would give an admired or wealthy personality.
I want to build a team of greats, so I will treat them as such.
ps. Sorry to all the great people I have fired. You will be great for someone else ;)